it wasn't so much me complaining about you complaining, i was just trying to point out the fact that regardless of what you try to say or do people are still going to complain, and the people who get irritated by that complaining are much better off just ignoring it instead of trying to fight it
if people want to spam-post complaints then that's their prerogative? it doesn't have to effect you, or anyone.
the other thing i was trying to point out is the fact that i don't blame people for pre-emptively complaining, because a lot of people here have given neb very many chances and a lot of them have been ruined.
yes; people do put a lot of time and effort into these things, but it also takes a lot of time and effort to give it a chance. and when most of us are now older with a lot of responsibilities, it can be very frustrating when we spend that time giving it a chance and it amounts to very little/a headache. we arent 14-18 y/o's with nothing to do beyond school anymore.