on one side i just wanna be myself without any labels, but on the other - labels are very comforting for some reason
nothing wrong with labels, if it gives you comfort just go for it, it can help explain your situation to others or understand yourself better.
ive just given up on trying to understand my brain personally, still respect others if they identify as something
if only it were that easy. whenever i see something anti-trans or anti-nb on social media i instantly get mad
i don't have anything more to add, thank you for the reply and i just hope it'll get easier with time. it's been like this for the past few years
after arguing with morons on the internet for so long you just gotta give it up at some point. people wont change their mind if they are set on something. only place i still actively do it is mainly here cause its a smaller space and i dont want others to go through the feeling you are describing, or with people i know that have the ability to change their mind
i do still get mad at those types of posts but you gotta learn to redirect that anger at something else
to add on, i think it does get easier, but it will never go away (at least for me). i do still go through periods where i feel like shit, look like shit, lose all motivation, go through "What ifs" (what if i was born y, what if i looked more x, etc), and have for the better part of a decade. my point is if you are in those types of spaces you can have an easier time discussing those types of things or even experimenting, especially since others will have gone through those kinds of things
they tend to happen less these days and i do contribute it a lot to my queer friends and interacting with morons less