Thank you, all of you, so much.
When I made this thread yesterday I thought it'd just go down with half a dozen nebs and get lost in the masses, but to see 2 pages of replies, 30 nebs and heart felt comments here, has honestly made the process easier for me - to see people care.
I've been informing my parents as comments pop up too, they send their thanks to everyone.
Again, I dunno how to thank you all for this.