Whats wrong with them knowingMentally, I (with poor logic) logically deduce that they'll figure it out if I ask them to wait, and with a lot of my problems I want to keep them extremely private because I hate my privacy being broken
And this is also your problemI don't. I sit inside just about all day unless I'm working or in school.
Whats wrong with them knowing
If you are a minor and the doctor perscribes you antidepressiv medicine then they'll be informed
If he sends yoy to a shrink they'll be told
Why not get help from the people that literally made you and obviously care since they didn't leave you at the side of the road
Nothing wrong with feeling down and if you can't talk to your parents about that stuff then no doctor will help you
Whats wrong with them knowing
If you are a minor and the doctor perscribes you antidepressiv medicine then they'll be informed
If he sends yoy to a shrink they'll be told
Why not get help from the people that literally made you and obviously care since they didn't leave you at the side of the road
Nothing wrong with feeling down and if you can't talk to your parents about that stuff then no doctor will help you
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And this is also your problem
Take part in as much social stuff as you can, get hobby like a sport or something
Swimming is great if you want to release some energy without fearing having to perform infront of people
Nothing will change and you will get worse unless you talk to them about itI feel like all the change is just too much. I hate change being so sudden and immense. It scares me, and makes me want everything to stay the same, even if the same is really shit for me.
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Thing is, I'm too vulnerable to go outside and the hobbies I have are basically Gmod RP and Gmod Artwork.
Nothing will change and you will get worse unless you talk to them about it
As personal as some relationships with people might seem here the vast majority are superficial which means it's really fucking damaging for someone in your situation to let this be your sole source of social interaction outside of school
Not talking is the worst outcome, isolating yourself isn't good for your brain nor your enviroment as the way you deal with things won't be healthy
You aren't socialising in a healthy wayTalking like this to people is helping me not be isolated. It lets me socialise with people.
You aren't socialising in a healthy way
Only being able to socialise through text and talking to your screen to people you will never meet is not good
You don't have to leave the house alone, go with your parents when they go to buy groceries or shop
I don't. I sit inside just about all day unless I'm working or in school.
Text on a screen is a really bad outletI think maybe we as a community should try to help John; any of us should be noble members and help out a fellow comrade and if he has a problem or an issue; he should be able to talk to any one of us. @John McRee If you got a problem, buddy - be it anything, feel free to talk to your friends or to people you trust about whatever issues you are going through and we'll be sure to help you out. Nebulous is a "community" after-all.
You might say that Evil, but here's thing thing - John has Aspergers and this is the only outlet he has. It's very easy for us to play arm-chair psychologist and say; "Oh you need to go out and make friends", friendship isn't something you can just seek out of the blue.Text on a screen is a really bad outlet
It may seem like you are getting help to you, but you aren't
Talk to people in person, not on the internet
Not talking to people outside of the internet creates an echochamber of bad shit, just look at R9K
You might say that Evil, but here's thing thing - John has Aspergers and this is the only outlet he has. It's very easy for us to play arm-chair psychologist and say; "Oh you need to go out and make friends", friendship isn't something you can just seek out of the blue.
Go do acid, figure yourself out or even better rewire yourself.
You might say that Evil, but here's thing thing - John has Aspergers and this is the only outlet he has. It's very easy for us to play arm-chair psychologist and say; "Oh you need to go out and make friends", friendship isn't something you can just seek out of the blue.
Look, I totally agree with you the community should be here for him and support John but this will not solve the problem, the only thing that will is professional help.
Oh, I agree - a combination of both would do wonders for him - the community helping him out and professional help.Look, I totally agree with you the community should be here for him and support John but this will not solve the problem, the only thing that will is professional help.
shit advice i guess but a big part in this is the mindset you keep.I know why I feel depressed, but I don't know how to really fix it.
I want to learn how to not care about things.
Any tips?