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I'm into men my issue is I feel rejected by other gay dudesThe issue is most of the people who are truly open about their sexuality are not LGBT and you can see their displays literally everywhere, even outside of commercials or specifically themed events. In fact, I defend that pride should be a time of fight and revindication, not "partying", but even so I've rarely seen anything as "outrageous" as some say they see apparently frequently enough to make a big fuss about it - In fact, I have seen very few cases of paraphilia displays in public, but guess what, most of them were performed by heterosexual couples (mind you, I was unaware of their sexuality, but the pairing itself was hetero).
Pride is a time for some others to party- And that has dragged companies into trying to get a share of the benefits commercializing pride may bring, which is something I see a real issue with, as I believe pride is a time to fight for more, better terms for LGBT people. But a single parade a year where some boomers get scared because some LGBT people are wearing funny outfits? That's what bothers people? Then holy shit they're ones to talk about "growing a thicker skin".
Like man, you guys really make it sound as if there are LGBT people outside wearing samba regalia every time you turn around the corner when that is not even close to a fact, in fact, it's so rare it's nearly fiction because most LGBT people are TERRIFIED of coming out because even their closest family members who are supposed to support them will probably reject them. There's no such issue as "alienation by le funny dressing degenerates", stop making up fake issues to undermine your local nice dude trying to flirt with a dude they found good-looking, just like any hetero person would, because there's no such thing as "lobotomites walking around in BDSM outfits", or at least, there are not enough to consider it an issue, let alone something that should cause anything but a "lol that's weird" from you.
TL;DR: If it's so easy for you to point and laugh at someone doing silly stuff, then don't apply that stigma to LGBT people, especially when the majority of those doing said openly sexual displays are, most of the time, heterosexual people who don't have to fear for their lives even if they live in "le big progressive first world country".
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