Its more so that we don't really 'compete' with anyone. The idea of servers fighting and trying to one-up one another is a practice that, imo, should have died back in 2013.
Most of the other big communities in our sphere we were/are on good terms with - even the TN guys got a thumbs up for doing cool stuff.
The difference between them and WN is that while they may deny it now, WN wasn't built just to make a community; they always wanted to try and cripple Neb by doing it. When
@Subeh got perma'd and Atle tried to get him to be staff he got talking to Mendelivius and it was made quite clear that it was a matter of bad blood and none of the upper management at the time liked Nebulous or wanted to be on good terms with us. They were making a community specifically to try and gut us and steal our playerbase. That was Atle's mandate at the time.
I
wish the chat logs had been saved but this was several years ago so sadly they're not and those that
were posted were mysteriously removed by Pastebin around the time WN launched in December.
If you bring up the idea now it'll be met with denial or you'll just be accused of trying to start drama and dismissed but that's why the whole thing bothers me so much.